About

Welcome! I’m Sherolde, and I’m thrilled you’re here.

Hi, I’m Sherolde Hackett.
Self-Mastery & Life Alignment Coach | Trauma-Informed Guide | Visionary of Be The Balanced Woman

I help high-achieving Black women who’ve spent their lives performing strength — finally feel safe enough to be seen in their softness.

With a Master’s in Social Work, advanced EMDR training, and decades of lived experience navigating both systems and self, I hold space for you to remove the mask — the one you didn’t choose, but learned to wear to survive.

You’re not the imposter.
You’re not broken.
You’ve simply been operating in a world that made you believe you had to shrink, smile, or overperform to belong.

But you were never the problem.
The problem is the system.
The healing is coming home to yourself.

As your professional auntie, I don’t just give you tools — I walk beside you as you untangle from internalized expectations, reconnect with your truth, and learn to trust the voice that’s been whispering:
“There’s more for me than this.”

Through Be The Balanced Woman, I create spaces, practices, and communities that honor your quiet unraveling and your radiant reclamation. We center nervous system safety, emotional clarity, and identity healing — so that success doesn’t come at the cost of your soul.

You don’t need to prove, push, or perfect.
You need space to breathe, remember, and rise — in a life that’s aligned with you.

This is your sacred return.
And I’m honored to walk with you.

When We Work Together, Here’s What We’ll Focus On:

Recognize

Gently identifying how your lived experiences, inherited expectations, and survival strategies have shaped your self-perception, boundaries, and choices.

Open

Creating space to soften the grip of self-doubt, perfectionism, and people-pleasing — the protective patterns that once kept you safe but now keep you small.

Own

Reclaiming your truth: your voice, your values, your softness, and your power — without apology or performance.

Transform

Not into someone new — but back into yourself. We’ll rebuild your life from the inside out, anchored in safety, self-trust, and emotional clarity.

Expand

Establishing sustainable rhythms, rituals, and boundaries that support your ongoing healing and embodiment — so you don’t just rise… you stay rooted.

This isn’t about fixing yourself.
It’s about remembering who you were before the world told you to be someone else.

Let’s unmask the layers that no longer serve you, and build a life rooted in your truth — so you can rise with softness, strength, and sovereignty.

Why I Created Be The Balanced Woman:

I’ve witnessed so many brilliant, vibrant women — especially Black women — exhaust themselves trying to hold it all together. Outwardly accomplished, inwardly unraveling. Wearing the mask of “fine” while silently longing for space to fall apart and come back home to themselves.

I’ve been there, too — settling, overgiving, questioning my worth, and wondering if I was the problem.

I wasn’t the problem.
Neither are you.

I created Be The Balanced Woman as the space I once needed — not to be better, but to be more me. To unmask. To breathe. To feel safe in my softness. To reconnect with the parts of me I had buried to survive.

This is not about chasing balance as perfection —
It’s about reclaiming balance as truth.

Here, you’ll find compassionate guidance, trauma-informed tools, and a community that sees the whole of you — not just the parts the world rewards.

Whether you’re unlearning survival patterns, shedding expectations, or rising into a life that finally feels like yours — this space is your sacred return.

You don’t need to perform your way into worth.
You just need space to remember who you are.

What You’ll Find Here:

This is your sanctuary for soft return.

A space to unmask, reconnect, and rise — gently, honestly, and on your terms.

Here, you’ll discover offerings designed to support your healing, your remembering, and your sacred reclamation:

Journals & Reflection Tools:

Thoughtful prompts and soulful downloads to guide you back to the parts of yourself you’ve silenced, buried, or forgotten — one page at a time.
Courses & Guides:
Self-paced experiences that help you release old narratives, rebuild inner trust, and create a life rooted in truth — not performance.
Community & Coaching:
A transformative space for women ready to reclaim their clarity, restore their balance, and build meaningful connections that fuel their journey to success and fulfillment.
Mindfulness Practices:
Accessible practices that center your nervous system, restore your energy, and hold you through the emotional waves of unlearning and becoming..

You don’t need to become someone new.
You just need space to remember who you already are.

Welcome to Be The Balanced Woman.
You’re safe to arrive as your whole self here.

My Vision for You:

Imagine a life where you feel empowered, confident, and whole—not just keeping up, but truly thriving.

A life where you’re not just keeping up but genuinely thriving—balanced, fulfilled, and boldly, authentically you.

This life is yours to claim.
And I’m here to guide you every step of the way.

Let’s create it, together.

Step Into Your Power and Create the Life You Deserve

Are you ready to stop second-guessing yourself and start living with clarity, confidence, and purpose?

When you work with a Self-Mastery Coach and Life Alignment Expert, you gain a partner who helps you break free from self-doubt, reclaim your power, and step fully into the life you’re meant to live.

Through the Rooted to Rise framework, we’ll:

Recognize the limiting beliefs and past experiences holding you back.
Open yourself to new perspectives, self-trust, and growth.
Own your values, strengths, and the vision you have for your life.
Transform how you set boundaries, show up, and embrace your power.
Expand into lasting confidence, balance, and success—on your terms. You’re not here just to survive—you’re here to rise.

Let’s begin your journey. Click here to schedule your FREE 30-minute discovery call today.

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